SWDesertHomes in Tucson, Marana, Oro Valley, Vail & More!: Teamwork, Networking and Responsibility

Teamwork, Networking and Responsibility

I belong to a networking group or two.  Most of us do, in business, I think.

  • Marana Chamber of Commerce (GREAT, loyal group)
  • My own personal Wine Whine group of mostly ladies that meet once a month.
  • A "Best of the West" group a co-worker is forming.
  • A few others I occasionally attend, but haven't JOINED.

Marana Chamber of Commerce

I watched an interesting personal video from a member of Marana Chamber of Commerce recently, and parts of it are still resonating.  One of those things I've ingested and it keeps making it's way to the surface.

Within it, "John" said, (I'm going to call him John in my story here) "networking is NOT about the individual attending".

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To elaborate, he went on the say that in successful, referral-based groups, networking is about being part of a whole.  It's about being there for others.

To push that thought a bit further:

Suppose your networking group has a presenter, like Toastmasters.  Or a presentation, or a sponsor...

Put yourself in their shoes.  They are spending their time and efforts to bring a quality product or service to the attention to the group.  What if, that week, we decided not to show... What if almost everyone didn't show...

How does that affect the effectiveness of the group, the morale, and so on?

Getting together for Ribbon Cuttings


Now, fast forward to today.  Why am I once again thinking of John's Facebook speech?


I help a group of mostly newer agents in our office at Dove Mountain.  Most weeks, there are around 10 attendees, which is cool because that's almost 25% of the office (that generally comes IN to an office) attending regularly.  This is a volunteer "Accountability" group that I personally find inspirational -- one of the reasons I try to keep it going.

The group requested that we have an "Ask the Experts" panel, which was put together and promoted for two weeks prior, during the same time as our weekly meeting.  I had 6 panelists to speak:  A former real estate designated broker, focusing on the inspection period and requests for repairs, etc; a Pillar to Post home inspector; a licensed gas/plumbing/heating/AC/hot water heater professional; ListerPros that help with photography, drones, marketing materials, websites; 2-10 Home Warranty, and the Vice President of Long Realty to answer questions about FSBO's and Expireds, among other questions.

So...pretty full, intelligent and experienced panel.  Attendees were asked to bring their questions!


Of the newbies, 5 were missing.  50%. Half.

I KNOW stuff comes up, we get sick, etc. etc. etc.

But I found myself thinking about the "responsibility" of being in a group, and how volunteers might feel when they are let down, including myself.

We still had decent attendance, many experienced agents came for the presentation -- and I think the presenters felt validated.


But still - think about the networking groups you have committed to.  Is someone counting on you? Will you experience the importance you play in your next networking opportunity?


If I can assist you in your home buying or selling in Marana, Tucson, Oro Valley, or Vail, please don't hesitate to call me!  Email at swdeserthomes@aol.com

Cara Marcelle Mancuso, Long Realty,


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Comment balloon 7 commentsCara Marcelle Mancuso • May 03 2018 07:54PM


Great thoughts about networking, Cara. One of the most successful networking I've been associated with met every 2 months. Once a month and members were more casual about attending. Every 2 months seemed to get attention and a more consistent turn out--because they were scarce, members made more of an effort to attend.

Posted by Lottie Kendall, Helping make your real estate dreams a reality (Compass) over 2 years ago

Those photos are a testament to a good time was had by all.  The lady on the left in the second photo looks like Flo from the Progressive Insurance ads.

Posted by Myrl Jeffcoat, Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent (GreatWest Realty) over 2 years ago

Our area has never had networking groups, too bad. I wish they had existed when I was in real estate. Now my clients come from everywhere else but the local area, so it wouldn't be of interest.

Posted by Marte Cliff, Your real estate writer (Marte Cliff Copywriting) over 2 years ago

If you are going to belong to a group of any kind, you ought to participate.  As you state, it's about the collective, not the individual.

Posted by Chris Ann Cleland, Associate Broker, Bristow, VA (Long and Foster REALTORS®, Gainesville, VA) over 2 years ago

I am always amazed at networking events, how people who know each other well huddle together. I go to network, that means I mingle and meet new people and develop new relationships.

Posted by John Wiley, Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA over 2 years ago

Dear Cara Marcelle,

Looks like this is working for you. I am a member of an interest group, but we have sort of suspended our meetings.

Posted by Dörte Engel, ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland (RE/MAX Leading Edge) over 2 years ago

What a great Blog Cara Marcelle Mancuso - I totally hear your message!  I remember going to my 1st Chamber of Commerce Meeting, and I was the one knowing no one, when I walked in.  My first thought after getting my coffee, was, 'I can spend 20 minutes here, and then sneak out, and no one will notice . . .'  Well, that didn't happen!  Some people did come up to me, and that started conversations - I just couldn't go up to folks already talking in groups, as interrupting seemed rude . . .  So, 'others' saved me!!  I do need to write a Blog!!  It wasn't about me at all, but how others brought me into their groups, and that's how I learned to 'return that favor' at the next Get-Together!! 

Posted by Allie Angeloni (Long Realty ) over 2 years ago